It is with great excitement that I write my first blog for Parelli Central from the tiny country of Costa Rica.
Nestled in between Nicaragua and Panama, Costa Rican culture holds horses in high esteem, with horse parades featuring in every ‘Pueblo’s yearly fiestas. Horses have been a huge part of Costa Rica’s culture since the Spanish came here and set up a colony in 1560. Unfortunately most of the horse training methods have changed little since then; submission, domination and achieving results through force are all too common here. However plugging away in the background are a small community of us “Parelli nuts” leading by example and showing people that there is another way! We now have our own 2-Star Parelli Instructor Alejandra Gonzalez and we are very proud of her.
Coming from the UK where my horse was more pampered than my husband, the training methods here left me with a heavy heart, I wanted to show people another way, but didn’t know how. I guess I had always practiced Parelli Natural Horsemanship but without structure. I am a great believer in fate, and shortly afterwards, I stumbled across a David Lichman clinic that was being held here. I had heard of Parelli but knew little about it! Being starved of horse clinics and like minded people I signed up. WELL, what can I say, it blew my mind. The Seven games, Savvy and dancing with David set me on my current path of all things Parelli. Nothing had ever felt so right in my life before.
Buying horses locally they all tend come with scars both physically and mentally from their previous lives. The seven games has helped them over come their fears, learn to trust and participate in mutual relationships with humans. When we are looking for a new horse for our business (we own a horse back riding outfit, taking tours into the rain forest,) we always try to visit places where we know the horses need to get out of! We buy them, rest them, retrain them and love them. This is how I found Archie, who has taken my Parelli journey to places I never knew I could go, he is my Allure!
We arrived at the ranch and were shown a tall rangy horse who looked like he would be ideal for our more leggy clients. I walked over to him and his eyes were wide and un-trusting. I could see he had been roughed up, but i didn’t realise to what extent. Had I have known I would never have got on his back! Once in the saddle I rode towards the corral. This was when he started shaking, Cowboys lined the fence (never a good sign!). As soon as I asked him to do anything, even just a walk he went up in the air on back legs. Common sense told me to walk away now with my bones intact; my heart was telling me something else. I turned him away from the corral and out into the field behind and told everyone to leave us alone. I jumped off and with a little pressure on his nose asked him to back up. He wouldn’t move, I moved up a phase very slowly and he stepped back. I stopped and rubbed him. He let out a huge sigh and licked and chewed. Standing there playing the friendly game I noticed the rope marks around both back legs, I started crying. I had to get this horse out of here. As I lead him back to the corral, I was met by my husband Chris, he had a very skeptical look in his eye! ” I want him” I said with a lift in my chin, being of Celtic blood I have be know to have a little stubbornness in my horseanality. “Great ” he said “But is going to be suitable for our novice clients? Because remember that IS what we are looking for.” As I marched past to start negotiating with the cowboys I said” Oh absolutely, he is quiet as a mouse!” my fingers were crossed in front of me. Archie came home with me the following day and I had found my “challenging” LBI equine partner in life.
Andrea Wady




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Hi Andrea,
Thanks for sharing what you do to help horses. I too am Parelli. Hubby surfs and I ride. Always thought about retiring in a place like Costa Rica. Any friend or info on areas that one could live and keep a few horses and surf would be much appreciated. Keep up the good work. maybe one day we will meet and yes thanks for Parelli and his dream. Keep up the good work it is people like yourself that make this a better place for all Gods creatures. I hope someday I can live my dream like you. Please keep in touch would love to hear of your progress. Joyce
Andrea,
WOW! I was just reading some of the blogs on PNH. I was in Jaco in March and chose to ride out at your barn because of the stand you are taking with your horses. I did’nt know about Parelli at that time but now I do and I am in awe! Everything feels so right and natural. I am cramming as much knowledge in as possible.
The tour was fabulous! I rode Shera. She was such a nice girl with a great horsenality! I would love to know how she is doing along with all your other “kids”.
I wish you all the best…Happy trails!
Aimee Hall
Andrea,
Thank you for your post. I just adopted a Shetland pony for similar reasons to your purchase of Archie. My heart just would not let her stay where she was – she has had a halter and lead rope on in a dark stall for months to years. Your story has given me renewed courage that I can help her trust again and become a partner. I hope one of my next winter escapes from the north will bring me to Costa Rica.
How awful for that poor pony. Well done you, rescues are so rewarding, sometimes challanging, but always worth it. She is very lucky to have you. Good luck. x
What a wonderful story, Andrea, thank you for sharing it! I love to hear about horsemanship around the world — good or bad — and this is a fascinating look into Costa Rica. Now I wish I could visit just to take one of your tours! Rental and tour string horses are often some of the most miserable-looking creatures I’ve seen, but it sounds like you’re a whole different ball game not just for Costa Rica but for tour strings in general. I hope you’ll share more of your adventures with us here at Parelli Central.
Thanks Mackenzie, i agree tour strings are usually in a terrible state, it is so sad. We try to do it different. Hope to see you down here one day.
Andrea, you have lifted my heart and spirit this morning reading your blog. Your line which reads – ‘I guess I had always practiced Parelli Natural Horsemanship but without structure’, was thus for daughter and i living in the UK. Pre- Parelli, there were natural trainers, but it all seemed so ‘secretive’, and ‘finding’ the right method to move on and up, impossible. Not anymore, Parelli has been and is, a daily delight for us and our horses, we are, like you, saying, ‘Nothing had ever felt so right in my life before’.
I couldnt agree more Cheryl, Pat and Linda Parelli have opened the doors for so many of us to excel and make a better world for our horses. When i think back to when i was a teenager and how much i misunderstood my horse it makes me feel awful. i am just glad i have the chance to practise PNH now.
Hi Andrea, I am so glad you got to write a blog for Parelli Central! I was for two months in Venezuela and I understand what you are talking about. Thank you for being a part of Parelli by making this world a better place – for horses and humans!
Petra Christensen
1Star Parelli Junior Instructor
Parelli Central
Thank you so much Petra for commenting, i am so excited to be part of the Parelli family. It has certainly changed MY life as well as the horses around me.
Andrea xx
Thanks for tellling us your story, Andrea. Your Archie is a very lucky horse to have you in his life.
I hope you’ll post more about your adventures with him. I look forward to hearing more from you. (I have a LBI who came to me with baggage too.)
Dear Andrea
I have read your blog with joy and from the middle of the text I had tears in my eyes. I find it so wonderful, what you are doing for horses in Costa Rica by buying not the -”easy well educated” ones, but those horses who urgently need to have humans to understand them. The story, how you found Archie, is wonderful, and I understand you and find myself in any of your sentences. Since I was a little girl (and that is years ago!) I am still suffering, when I see a horse with sadness in his eyes – and even if Switzerland is not Costa Rica, also here is still a lot to do concerning Natural Horsemanship. Thanks to Parelli we have many good instructors here and Parelli Switzerland does every thing to spread this knowledge throughout the country.
I thank you for this blog and wish you many many happy and challenging
moments on your journey with humans and horses.
Thank you all for your kind words. It is great to be in touch with such great people. Keep checking back for more updates. Andrea x